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Have Fun With New Toys and Partners – No Strings Attached
Guest post from Holly Rose Sex toys and escorts are a great way of exploring your sexuality with no commitment. Right now, sex is all about you. We ladies have often be expected to take a back seat in...
View ArticleUgh
I’ve been sick for three weeks, and I’m just over it. I don’t want to test toys or blog about it. i don’t want to do anything other than watch FRIENDS while lying on my couch. And maybe order pizza....
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Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1
Best Sex Writing of the Year, Volume 1 $16.95 from Cleis Press Another year, another edition of Best Sex Writing. Actually, this anthology of essays, blog posts and personal tales doesn’t come out...
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8 Beginner Bondage Toys That Will Transform Your Sex Life
In recent years, we’ve fallen head over heels for anything bondage. Whips, cuffs, floggers – you name it, we’re buying it. Could this be the Fifty Shades effect?It seems that as soon as it hit the...
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The Latest Bondage Trends: From the Bedroom to the Catwalk
Fashion designers are looking to bondage for some inspiration this season. So how can you sex up your look? Bondage has been pretty popular in the bedroom for a long time. Plenty of people use things...
View ArticleI Don’t Want to Have Sex with Myself
Well, no, that’s not exactly right. I am a sexual being. I generally enjoy masturbating, even if my orgasms are more perfunctory than anything else, and even if the most I get out of squirting is...
View ArticleIntimacy Disorders: Sex Addiction in Women
Lack of knowledge and research about female sex addiction led to a tendency to think of hypersexual behavior as a male problem. Men are more likely to have some recognizable ways of acting out sexually...
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Making Sense of Dating, Sex and the Internet with Chase & Hunter Candles
Being a woman in her 30s in 2016 is a bag of mixed nuts, to say the least. I didn’t grow up with smartphones, but I am fluent using them. I’ve watched the Internet move from home pages and forums to...
View ArticleI Get Paid to Write About Sex
..and it has nothing to do with this blog. Which isn’t to say that I haven’t made money from this blog. But I am not so awesome (like Epiphora!) to have made it my job. I do get paid to write about...
View ArticleThe Purge
No, I’m not talking about some presumably terrible horror (thriller?) movie. Rather, I mean the semi-annual completely random time at which I realized the product packaging dilemma in my apartment has...
View ArticleI’ve Been Published
I’m very proud to announce that you can find my writings published in hard cover and not just on my blog. Check out the books below to find my stories. Hopefully, this list grows as I am published...
View ArticleOn one hand, lemons
I don’t know when I first stumbled across Dr Emily Nagoski’s post on Lemonade Sex. I think I began reading her blog after I read her book. I’ve continued to read and references her work since then. If...
View ArticleFinding Myself in Faraway Lands
I normally don’t post explicit about my “real” life on this blog, but my recent vacation includes some wonderful expressions of sexuality and personality that I wanted to reflect on. As someone who...
View Article10 Years of Blogging About Sex in 5150 Words
10 years. 10 years is a long time to stick with anything whether it be a relationship, a job or, yes, a blog. Indeed, 10 years is nearly a third of my life as a 32-year-old. That really puts things in...
View ArticleFOSTA/SESTA Hurts the Very People It’s Intended to Protect
Today’s guest post is about a topic that I’ve discussed on Twitter and Facebook but not here on my blog. My sex educator peers and the sex workers who run in adjacent circles are well aware of the...
View ArticleIn Dreams
I’ve dreamed about The Bartender often lately. My dreams aren’t about him, though; they’re about what he symbolizes. After all, we have barely talked twice in over two years. We haven’t slept together...
View ArticleHPV, Pre-cancerous Cells, and Me
Two and a half months ago, I scheduled an appointment at the reproductive health clinic to have an overdue pap done. I also was excited to get my first HPV vaccine thanks to the CDC’s age limit changes...
View ArticleDon’t Love Your Hitachi? Try An Attachment
I may be the only person in the world who doesn’t love the toy formerly known as the Hitachi Magic Wand (now the Magic Wand Original). I simply prefer my wand head to be more cylindrical than...
View ArticleFor A Satisfying Sex Life, Don’t Ignore What Makes You Unique
The world is designed for the average person. It’s how we got the BMI scale and clothing sizes. Except, as it turns out, no real person meets the mythical average. That’s why clothes shopping is such a...
View ArticleHi There
It’s me, Adriana. I’m alive. I hope that some of you seeing these words find them reassuring in some way. This winter was difficult, what with the breakup, deaths of loved ones, and my plummeting...
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